Today is my ex wife's birthday and she is in jail...Should I send her flowers from the kids?

I would consider what the circumstances are and your own parental judgement on that one . It%26#039;%26#039;s unlikely she would be allowed to keep the flowers if she were to get them . If they choose to send something perhaps a phonecard may be in order .

Today is my ex wife%26#039;s birthday and she is in jail...Should I send her flowers from the kids?
they won%26#039;t allow flowers in jail. Send a card.
Reply:yes, just put yourself in her situation and your kids don%26#039;t send you anything. what would you feel. so just send it straight away. she%26#039;s still your kids%26#039; mother
Reply:this will be really nice ,and it may raise her spirits.


and also as others say,it will be more better if the children sent her something else,like a handmade card.
Reply:that would be nice. she would really love that.
Reply:No , let the kids send her home made cards . The flowers would make her feel like they are from you and you still have feelings (do you?) Homemade cards are the best from kids , I%26#039;m a Mom of three grown children and I have every card they ever gave me and made me ..
Reply:ok, she is in jail...


there are a lot of things she can%26#039;t get from the outside


find out what is ok for her to have


candy, toiletries, small amt of money


they may not allow flowers


make sure you send with it a nice card from the kids-


love you mommy, all that


it would be a nice memento for her she could keep there
Reply:Go with the card not the flowers. Also something that she%26#039;d be allowed to keep, something practical she could use.





Thoughtful of you....
Reply:That would be sweet and your kids would love you for it.
Reply:What a thoughtful man. Yes, put your feelings aside in favour of your children%26#039;s and their Mother%26#039;s. Great Karma
Reply:Yup, go with the cards.





Your not allowed to send anything into prisons, everything has to be bought inside so that nothing gets in that shouldn%26#039;t.
Reply:cards are cool, and pictures of the kids. Thats nice that your taking the time to do that. It will make the happy.
Reply:that would be nice, it would make her feel better



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